Holiday gift-buying can be hard and even stressful during any phase of life. But it can be especially challenging for anyone buying gifts for cancer patients, including those with mesothelioma. To help anyone struggling with this task, we searched for patient perspectives on the best gifts.
We read countless forum posts, cancer center pages and personal stories. Then, we pulled the best cancer patient gifts into the list below. We hope this list will help you brighten the holiday season for any loved ones battling cancer.
1: Fewer Chores With a Cleaning Service Gift Card
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Treatments like chemotherapy and radiation often leave patients exhausted. Tidying and cleaning the house can be the last thing any cancer patient has energy for. The gift of housecleaning can take several chores off a patient’s plate. A cleaning service may also help the patient feel more comfortable and relaxed in their tidied home.
One patient called their house cleaning gift “amazing.”
2: Clean Clothes Effortlessly With a Laundry Service Gift Card
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Washing, drying, folding and putting away laundry can be too much, even on a normal day. For cancer patients, those tasks may be absolute non-starters because of fatigue or nausea. But everyone needs clean clothes, especially if they don’t feel great.
A laundry service gift card can take this weight off the cancer patient’s shoulders. Some services do pickup and delivery, while others require drop-off and pickup. A bit of online research can help gift givers decide which service can best help cancer patients.
3: A Surprise Message From a Band or Celebrity They Love
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This gift can bring some unique lightness to a difficult situation. Many cancer patients understandably struggle with depression and anxiety. These conditions can make it tough to find moments of joy. A personal message from a band or celebrity could be a surprising and heartening bright spot. It might also provide a rare moment of complete distraction, allowing them to not think about cancer for a few minutes.
Does the cancer patient in your life love The Office? Imagine how surprised and delighted they might be if Kate Flannery (Meredith) sent an encouraging message. One recipient of a surprise video from a favorite band called it “more than [the patient] could have ever dreamed of.”
4: Food They Actually Want to Eat
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Cancer treatment can change a person’s sense of taste or smell. This may make cooking impossible. The patient may also lose interest in foods they used to love. But thoughtful gifts can help make it easier for patients to eat nourishing food they like.
Gift cards for food delivery services let the patient choose what they want out of many available choices. A grocery delivery gift card can ensure the patient has money dedicated to good nutrition that comes right to the door. Both options give the patient flexibility to try different foods when an everyday meal seems unappetizing.
5: High-Quality Self Care Through Professional Massage
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Cancer treatment can leave patients feeling physically drained. It may also leave them with pain in various places. Experts recommend massage therapy as a way to help manage these symptoms.
But cost can be a concern, especially around the holidays. Patients may worry about spending money on massage, despite its potential benefits. So friends or loved ones can give them a gift certificate for a massage or massage membership. The gift of massage can help reduce anxiety, depression, pain and fatigue. It may also help improve the patient’s sleep.
6: A Personalized Care Package
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Cancer patients can have unique stresses and coping mechanisms. A personalized care package allows you to tailor the gift to the patient’s needs and preferences. Comfy clothes like fluffy socks, soft slippers, and a luxurious robe can increase comfort in an uncomfortable situation. A book of crossword puzzles or Sudoku may help distract a puzzle lover.
7: Something Fun to Do in the Near Future
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A cancer diagnosis can make normal life come to a screeching halt. Previously planned trips or vacations may get rescheduled to make room for treatment. And getaway funds may turn into treatment funds. A gifted trip or experience can provide cancer patients with a much-needed break from their disease and its many implications. It can also help patients make cherished memories that do not focus on cancer or its treatment.
But trips are expensive, especially if they include loved ones. Luckily, several organizations help cancer patients take fun trips with their families at little to no cost. Some go so far as to plan every detail and provide spending money. Nominating a patient for a paid family trip is a massive gift that could bring so much joy.
8: Comfy Clothes
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Cancer treatments themselves can cause discomfort, but some clothing choices may make things worse. In cold infusion rooms, patients often welcome comfy layering cardigans, soft tees and fuzzy slippers. Custom-made clothes may help patients navigate ports and drains more easily.
Carefully selected clothes can make a patient’s treatment experience much more comfortable.
9: Soft Blankets With Special Meaning
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Hospitals and infusion centers are notoriously cold, but a plush fleece blanket can help a patient stay comfortable. Will they stay even cozier if the blanket is printed with a life-size collage of friends and family? Probably not. But a photo collage fleece blanket might improve a cancer patient’s spirits in a hospital or at home.
10: Cancer-Conscious Skincare
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Cancer treatments can dry out and irritate the patient’s skin. Fragrances and additives in normal skincare products may not soothe this irritation. Some may make it worse. Face and body care products without dyes, fragrances or preservatives can help. But they may be tough to track down.
A cancer-conscious skincare gift can help lessen irritation and save patients the brain drain of hunting down good products themselves.
11: Infusion-Friendly Distractions
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Chemotherapy and immunotherapy infusions can take hours. Patients may pass the time more easily with a variety of distractions. A tablet or e-reader can hold a library’s worth of books in a very small space. For patients who like streaming, comfortable headphones with a long-lasting battery may make all the difference.
Does your recipient have a mobile device but no streaming services? There are gift cards for that. Does your recipient hate technology? A coloring book for grown-ups with a nice set of coloring pencils or watercolors might provide a welcome brain break.
Bonus Gift: Whatever You Would Normally Get
Some patients understandably do not want cancer-centric gifts. They want you to give them whatever you would have without the cancer. This may be the secret, best gift on this list. Why? If the cancer-unrelated gift is good enough, it may provide a much-needed mental break from cancer.
