My Decade of Survivorship
May 26, 2015
<img class="floatright" alt="Heather Von St. James" src="/images/blog/posts/hvsj_10years.jpg?maxwidth=150&maxheight=150" /><p>Today is a day I was never meant to live, this year was one I wasn’t supposed to see, this life is one I wasn’t supposed to have.</p><p>No one ever prepares you to fight for your life. When your reality becomes just that, learning that your existence is not guaranteed, your world becomes something you could have never imagined. I always wanted to be a mother, and after marrying the most amazing man, I was ready to be a parent. We would be a new family. I would become a mother, and find a new kind of unconditional love. After giving birth to our daughter, I was overjoyed. That joy suddenly faded after losing weight and strength in my body, feeling that I could not physically breathe. I was concerned, but attributed the weight loss to my recent pregnancy. Finally feeling that something more was actually to blame, I saw a doctor, and was told I had mesothelioma, a rare cancer caused by exposure to asbestos. I was given 15 months to live. That was 10 years ago. Throughout the last ten years I have devoted my life to spreading awareness of the dangers of asbestos, sharing hope, and supporting others on their path towards a cancer-free life.</p> ...
Breathing New Life Into Lung Leavin' Day
February 26, 2015
<img class="floatright" alt="Lung Leavin' Day 2015" src="/images/blog/posts/LLD2015_4.jpg?maxwidth=150&maxheight=150" /><p>Every year following Lung Leavin’ Day, I write a recap of the evening. This year I wanted to do something a little different. I know the event has a huge effect on people, and in the last couple of years people have shared their feelings about the night with me. I thought I would ask a few friends about their thoughts on the tradition and share them with you.</p> ...
Reflecting on the "Firsts" of 2014
January 8, 2015
<img class="floatright" alt="Von St. James family golfing" src="/images/blog/posts/HVSJ-Golf.jpg?maxwidth=150&maxheight=150" /><p>As a society, we put a huge emphasis on our children’s “firsts”: baby’s first tooth, baby’s first steps. The first birthday, the first day of school. Oh my, how I remember that day with Lily! So many of her firsts were milestones simply for the fact that I was not supposed to be alive to see them. I treasured each of those firsts, and marked the occasions with pictures and videos. I even still have her first tooth somewhere.</p> ...
The Importance of Support for Cancer Patients
August 7, 2014
<p>When I was diagnosed with mesothelioma, I felt more isolated than I ever had in my life.. I was a mere 36 years young and told I had an incredibly rare cancer that, in most cases, was diagnosed in much older men. I felt utterly alone and defeated.</p> ...